A traditional Japanese wedding can be a very elegant and serene affair, if very expensive. But you can incorporate elements of a Japanese wedding into your wedding day at a fraction of the cost.
If you want to be very traditional Japanese, then order a custom made white silk kimono from a good seamstress. In Japan these can cost up to $25,000, but you should be able to get one recreated for you for much less.
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The groom would traditionally wear a Haori on top and a Hakama on the bottom, both of which would be in black. The bride would also have up to five kimono changes throughout the wedding day.
You could also wear a traditional Japanese wig with your outfit, which would be heavily decorated with flowers, gold combs and pearls. The wedding party would also wear kimonos with the color being chosen by the bride.
At the ceremony, the bride and groom would enter from opposite sides of the room, to the sound of a drum and flute. The attendants would wave sacred trees made from paper streamers over the couple’s heads to signify purification and keep evil spirits at bay. After the couple has exchanged vows they would drink wine or sake, and then trade their glasses nine times to signify their new bond.
East Meets Guest Accessories
Consider these details when planning a Japanese wedding theme:
• Paper or sandalwood fans to keep your guests cool.
• Bonsai trees or zen trays as centerpieces on the reception tables,
• Vivid, festive parasols for the flower girl or bridesmaids to carry,
• Small glass cylinders filled with bamboo stems set around the reception, to spread good luck and an authentic Japanese ambiance.
• Try an Asian-style room spray which you can waft around the reception room before entering (be careful not to use anything too sweet or overpowering, though!)
Paper lanterns are perfect for a Japanese wedding theme. Hang them from trees, ceilings or marquee tents. Miniature fans are a stylish addition to your place settings and you could have them printed with your guest’s names. Chopsticks make a great and fun favor.
Blended Bliss
Consider your guests when you begin to plan the Japanese elements of your wedding. Some careful choices and clever blending of Japanese and Western customs, will keep the wedding interesting but familiar to your guests and above enjoyable.
Do your research on Japanese culture and customs. You can include some or all of them, but be sure to blend in your own style and personalities. Simple additions to your attire, reception décor, music and flowers can give your wedding an elegant feel with a touch of oriental delight.
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Georgina Clatworthy is a dedicated full time writer who composes informative articles related to wedding favors and wedding. She is connected with 1WeddingSource, today’s leading wedding social networking planning site.