By: Julia Aidan
Submitted: 2011-11-15 02:13:56 | Word Count: 496
Start with kissing & touching, gently don't rush. The Slower the seduction the more she will open up and the more intense the sex....
If you just want a quickie then ripping her underwear off and sticking it in is fine........ Just don't fool yourself into thinking you seduced her. That can be a turn on and extremely hot but probably not the best idea when you are intimate for the first time or at the start of a relationship. There will be plenty of time for quickies on the kitchen bench if you learn to please her ......
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Don't rush...... Make her pleasure your priority. If you can make her comfortable, and please her, the experience will not only be amazing for her but also for you. Your confidence will not only up dramatically but watching your sexy woman going off will be such a turn on for you....If you please a women (the good ones) she will make it her absolute priority to take extra special care of you.
Go down on her FIRST. Before intercourse.....This is an absolute must. Ask questions: Every woman is different and likes to be touched, licked and sucked very differently. Listen !!!
Ask her how she likes to touch herself.....Let her have a play and watch how she touches herself. Give her a helping hand when you feel the need. If you make a women come first with your tongue or fingers or both she will be relaxed and more likely come again and again during intercourse.
Learn about women's Pleasure Zones. Most nerve endings, G-spot & Clitoris are closer to the beginning of her vagina then the other end-her cervix. Pumping away, deep inside at her cervix is only going to make her sore, and if you do this and wonder why she didn't climax, well know you know.
Unfortunately, many men are too selfish and fail to realize that if you dedicate your time to pleasing your woman every time you get intimate she will do anything for you. She will want to please and fulfill your fantasies every time she sees you. She will also be relaxed, and we all know a satisfied woman is and that will in turn make your lady more open & adventurous.
Different positions work differently for different women, so ask her what she likes, experiment with different positions and communicate.
Don't use your time with a woman making it all about you. Take you time to please her too and you will not only last longer you will also be invited back over or if it is your wife, you wont have sex once a week, month, year, decade, etc.
If you don't learn how to please your woman there is not incentive for her to want to get intimate with you and she just might start looking for someone who will!
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