By: Julia Aidan
Submitted: 2009-02-04 05:06:02 | Word Count: 564
Everyone loves to talk endlessly and can carry on speaking for hours together continuously and if your conversation is related to someone then there is no time bound on your chitchat. “Heard about her daughter? She eloped! Oh god…. I told you but please don't tell her that I told you” Isn't this exciting? Yeah Gossip is fascinating and especially among women who are greatly talented Gossipers.
Anyhow there is some sort of excitement to know more about what is happening in other person's life and if it is a story we love telling it to everyone possible. But in this case, men can't be left behindeven men love to Gossip, but not as muchas women. Gossip can be about anything like a celebrity gossip (the most loved topic of discussion) or the gossip may be about a person (what is going onin his life) and Gossiping is completely normal as far as it does not harm personal feelings of anybody. Gossiping is done behind the back of a person, just as a swindler does. Although we are aware about what we are doing is incorrect but then there is an urge to do so and we truly love it.
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Gossip is actually a rumor that is spread from person to person. The more you are curious to learn about someone the more you want to Gossip. It is a great time pass. People love to talkand hear about a person. There are some causes why people love to gossip:
- Anxiety: Generally we are anxious to know what is happening in others life so we start Gossiping with a person and know what the actual problem is and once we know what the story is, we try to tell the entire world about it.
- Tendency: In realitygossiping is a common habit. We usually talk about others because of our natural habit and we love doing that as we are satisfied within.
- Interest: It is fascinating to know what is going on in his/her life, this interest urges us to gossip.
- Dis-like: We gossip about someone when we do not like him/her. Due to this dislike a person loves to opens him/her in front of the world.
- To form a Misunderstanding: It is a human behavior to get some kind satisfaction by creating misunderstanding among two people and this is actually bad a person normally gossips to shatter a healthy bond among two people which might be due tojealousy or personal envy.
Whatever may be the reason, Gossiping is a real fun, a fun that everyone enjoys to practice and gets a different type of satisfaction. It may sound bad but gossiping is truly a bad habit, but then too everyone loves to do it. However before initiating a Gossip always think that your gossip shouldn't hurt anybodys emotions, actually try and participate in a weighty gossip which is light and pleasurable. A Gossip should be such that it soothes you from your daily stress and not the one that makes you feel guilty for speaking something about anyone. obviously your sub-conscious mind does hurt you after a gossip where you speak bad about others.
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