By: Julia Aidan
Submitted: 2011-07-15 05:00:26 | Word Count: 807
Part Two: The Rules to keep them happy and horny
So your partner has agreed to a threesome and you are ecstatic, now before you get started it is important to establish the rules.
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Rule No.1
Establish Rules & Boundaries
You're going to have sex with two women and all three of you have differing expectations, rules, limitations and boundaries. Outlining and clearly communicating what they are and respecting each other's comfort should be priority when establishing these rules.
As a threesome will likely affect your relationship you need to be absolutely clear on what acts she is comfortable with and what to avoid prior to beginning the debauchery (i.e. penetration, oral sex, kissing, etc).
You must respect her limits and understand that either woman may feel jealous at any time so do your best not to shut out either woman. Always give your partner more attention than the other woman during a threesome. You may also; feel jealous as you may not be the center of attention and the ladies may be into each other more than you expected. Remember it is not all about you and you may find it a real turn on watching them please each other.
Rule No.2
Do Not Get Drunk
A drink or two is fine to loosen up, or a bottle of champagne to be shared throughout the encounter can compliment the evening, but do not get drink to get past the nervousness you may feel. It is natural with any new experience and by understanding this; it can actually be a real turn on rather than scary.
If you are nervous start the evening slowing and sensually and build up the anticipation. Don't jump straight into it, and give everyone time to relax.
Drinking too much will end up disastrous as rules may not be followed and it will be very hard to please one let alone two women drunk. You want your night to be memorable for the right reasons.
Rule No.3
Give And Thou Shalt Receive
Many men are probably hoping that once you reach the bedroom it will be an all night, porn style fuck fest with both women focusing on them. Unfortunately if you want the evening to be mutually beneficial to all parties you will have to be less selfish and give to both women as much as you can.
You may feel left out, get over it and enjoy what many people do not have the opportunity to. Use your hands, tongue and lips as best you can, be patient and the attention will come back to you. Caress breasts, thighs, vaginas, kiss, lick, suck, give oral and you will not be left out for very long at all. Whatever comes back to you is a bonus, so instead of expecting certain things or trying to control the situation enjoy what lovely things come your way.
Rule No.4
Penetration? When, What and How
Penetration can be tricky when in the situation of a threesome. It forms a connection and serious bond between you and one woman, and can lead to the other women being seriously left out. You must only penetrate when you are 100% sure both women are comfortable with it. You will feel inclined to focus all your attention to the women you are inside of but you should make an effort to kiss, touch and look the other women in the eye.
Whilst thrusting into one woman and touching and kissing another may be overwhelming it is important not to climax too early as you want to have the opportunity to please both women prior to your orgasm. Take it slowly and enjoy a slower paced, sensual, erotic evening.
Rule No.5
Safe Sex
Semen and vaginal fluid transmit STDs, so use one specific hand for each woman, do not alternate. Also condoms must be changed as you change partners and dental dams are a good way to protect yourself and your girlfriend as your other playmates sexual/medical history may be unknown.
Rule No.6
No Sleepover and Phone numbers
While it may be blissful to lie together afterward, do not have your third party stay over. It is best you wake up with your girlfriend with memories of you third party not wake up with them in your bed. This would be very detrimental to your relationship. As they say " Things will look different in the morning". If you wake up just the two, you will both have lingering memories, of a fantasy, rather than someone in the bed who is likely to cause jealousy and regret on your girls part. Also do not ask the other woman for her number, your girlfriend may in case you both want the experience again.
