Part One - How to get your partner to agree with a threesome
By: Julia Aidan
Submitted: 2011-07-15 05:00:15 | Word Count: 403
Part One: How to get your partner to agree with a threesome
So you want to coax your partner get nasty with a third person. You want your partner to be:
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(a) Be into the idea
(b) Have as much fun as you possibly can together
(c) Not damage your relationship, built up resentment or destroy trust between you
First you have to bring up the subject quite delicately, reassuring your partner that you want to explore and enjoy your sexuality with them and not a way to just sleep with someone else.
If done correctly threesome provides a way to explore their carnal desires and fantasies together and provide closeness and their own little secret.
If your partner is open minded, sexually adventurous and just downright dirty a threesome should not be too hard to bring up. However, if your partner is very old fashioned when it comes to the bedroom and you still do it with a hole in the sheet so that you can't see her body then maybe you've lucked out.
You should be able to tell from your relationship and partner if you should even bring it up.
Some people will view a threesome as the beginning of the end and will see it as nothing more than a potential threat to the relationship. If the relationship has been a bit rocky, probably not the best time to have someone else messing up the bed.
Don't just spill, "Honey why don't we have a threesome?" Gradually discuss sexual fantasies and maybe say something like "I would love to see you kissing another woman." That way the attention is brought to her rather than you wanting to be with another woman.
Don't push if your partner is not into it, as this will destroy what faith and trust she has in the relationship. You want her understand you want to have this experience with her and not about you wanting someone else. If you are fortunate enough to get the green light it is important your partner chooses who will join you.
Definitely don't push for someone way more attractive than your partner and be thankful that you have such an exciting and understanding partner in the first place.
