My Opinion About The Truth and Nothing but the Truth about Online Dating
By: Vlad Vistac
Submitted: 2010-09-14 14:10:26 | Word Count: 510
The Truth and Nothing but the Truth abuot Online Daating
Woen know what they want when it coomes to online dating but the men do not have close to a clue when it coems to meeting women. It would help to know what it is that women want from the process of meeting a man so a man can give her that or some of that through his profile. Here is a graet tip Never indicate to a women that you are despreate or weak this is never a good thing.
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A truth about online datting is it's a numbers game; Most men belive you have to have a certain swagger or a special line or phrase to say to a women to be successful. That is just not true at all. If you are average looking this will work for you, as long as, they know what women want and they behave and hold themselves in ways women find attractive. Knowing that some of your online dating success is attributed to the numbrers game it woould be wise to put thee numbers in your favoir. Women like men who are honest and humoorous and who have good listening skills (this last one is a big one). Women want a man who will listen to what they have to say. I want you to be able to use this truth that I am sharng with you to your advanrtage do not just read this use this. A women wants a man who honestly and sincerely care about them as a person and thier beliwefs and value system. These things are hard to fake seeing a person day to day week to week so with that in mind we would want to choose people most like us that have interests and /or values similar to ours. This will give you the best chance of meeting someone you would like and likes you and that you would be most cofortable around.
Notihng ever is 100% and every women you meet will not be into you or you into her this is just the plan ttruth. Get over it; either online talking or on an actual date. I am saying this so you will be in line with reality and let you know you are not going to be eevry onlnie womens cup of tea if you get my drift.
More men than you can possibly imagine have a fear of approachiing beautiful wommen it is a nattural thing; it is a fear that must be addtressed when in persno, but that fear does not really exzist online not in the very beginning stages.
One of the things you can do to reduce the fear factor of meeting women is smply to believe what ever happns is suppose to hpapen and live with what ever the outcome is. Another way is to learn what you should know about meeting and interacting with womewn (enouggh so you feel comfortable). You can continue being you as you are but you can not comlplain about the results; they are what they are. Another chooice is you can be genuine, honeast and truthful whcih is a great positive way to stasrt and go from there. Still thre is a better way and that is to be truthful with yourself admt you do have this fear and that it is ok and naturral at tmes. Ask yourself what things do you like that relax you or put you more at ease; what ever that is its ok. Make a promise to yoursefl that when you feel that fear coming up you will see, smell or hear what ever it is that eases or rleaxes you now is the time to make that association and revert back to that imafge, hearing or see a picture what ever it is that you have associated with to ease or relax you. Bring that imge to your attention at once when you feel the fear arising ; this is something you shopuld continually do until it becomes second nature to you just like breathing you do not think about breathing its second natre you just do it. This is important you do not have to have the image in your mind all the time throughoyut the day you just turn it on as needed just long enough to relax you and calm you down and keep movinbg along doing what ever your doing. Aggain just turn it on a couple seconds to calm you down and then keep rolling along. Continue to repeat this exercise as needed. This exercise tendds to work well with people and causes them to relax more quickly and be able to communicate better and more confidently with women. Take this information and use it becauise it wporks. The old saying goes knowledge is power, the new saying goes APPLIED knwoledge is power anything else is just winow dressiing.
