By: Aaron Adams
Submitted: 2008-09-01 18:20:41 | Word Count: 501
It started like a dream. You were so in love and can’t stop seeing each other. You get to be so close that you feel you could share your innermost thoughts with him. Tell him your true feelings you did then he slowly faded out of the picture. You might have wondered what went wrong and if there is a way to stop him from leaving once you’ve shown him the real you.
There is a way to stop him from leaving. But you should be honest enough to admit that you may have had a hand in his hasty departure. In reality it was not all his fault, you have to deal with the truth that you too were at fault.
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Emotional stability is important for men and they can sense instability immediately. The moment you start sharing about your feelings, expectations and reservations, you are telling him that you still need to get your act together emotionally. He would automatically think that he would need to deal with these issues as the relationship progresses, so basically being with you does not sound as exciting as before.
Read the lines below and see how they resonate with you. Note if you feel like agreeing with the lines, or if you feel the opposite and believe otherwise:
“My love life is my turf, no man will tell me the things I should and should not have in the relationship. If he does not keep the pace then he’ll have to go.”
“I will not date an idiot. If by chance I get into a relationship with one, ill point him to the nearest exit the moment I realize he is one.”
“Boys will be boys, so if he wants to play with his toys, then so be it. He can continue enjoying the things he used to enjoy as long and I will even enjoy it with him as long as it is doesn t cross any lines of decency.”
If you disagreed with even one of those lines, then I have some bad news for you. Those are the lines that irresistible women give out and they are the women who Mr. Right can’t resist having. For short, they are they own women who knows what they want and how to get what they want. They are not afraid to show the world who they really are and people’s opinions don’t matter much to them. They don’t make their man choose between her or the things he love doing.
Wanting to be the woman that Mr. Right can’t resist? The honestly gauge yourself and see which among the lines above you disagree with. Learn how you can be able to say those lines with confidence because those lines can tell you if you are worthy of Mr. Right’s attention. When you know your self more then you’ll have greater chances of being that irresistible woman that you ought to be.
