By: Samantha White
Submitted: 2010-04-22 16:58:08 | Word Count: 525
You have met, in maybe the most interesting of situations, or maybe the most casual. You have liked each other, decided to hang out a while, and did, or maybe you have just met and decided that you two are the ones who you both have been expecting and dreaming about. You have told your families and friends about each other, and that you are thinking of marrying each other. Or maybe you told no one, and this is happening secretly, or maybe in a rush, that you did not have any time to tell anybody! Nevertheless, you have gathered some people to be in your wedding, you have decided where it will be, and arrived there in time. Thinking of nothing, but marrying each other.
Everything must be ready, set in order, and guaranteed to make no mistake. The priest, the wedding cake, the boxes of rose petals that are going to be showered down on you two, your clothes, your perfume, your appearance, your haircut, and most importantly, yourself. Yes, yourself. You have called upon your family priest, you have made ready the best wedding cake with 9 floors, that the world has ever seen. You have little maidens to shower you with roses, you bought awesome clothes and perfume. But are you, ready to face this day? Did you, really, make up your mind of this decision clearly? You must remember that a hesitation of a second could ruin the day. If your hand shakes for just half a second, on the sign chart, you might ruin your wife or husband with disappointment and maybe instill distrust that you two must not get over for all those years you will be living together. Are you really sure that you want to, live with him/her for the rest of his life? Are you sure, after some time, after some events and after some changes, your idea will stay the same? That you, or him, will stay the same? It is maybe the hardest thing to tell for you need to be gifted with foreseeing. Or able to anticipate what is going to be in a long period of time. Have you two decided what to do with your life? Have you two talked about what changes you might encounter, over this time? Or if you two want child, now or later or any time? What if you have a dream, a life aspiration that cannot drag someone else than you alone, with it? What if what you want to be in the future, requires you to change in a great deal, which might cause him, to not like you any more?
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These are some of the few reasons that marriages end up with separation. Remember that this is the moment that may be the climax of your life, this might be the most important moment of your life, this might be the most, happy or sad moment of your life. If you want to live the rest of your life with happiness, or maybe contend. You must think of these, and share what you think with the one you are thinking of marriage.
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