A New Breed of Dating Advice Software Applications
By: Fabiola Grosshan
Submitted: 2010-04-21 02:27:18 | Word Count: 643
In a world where competition seems to be the key, there are many people that although do well or very well in various aspects of their lives, prove to be unable to successfully attract love interests. This is usually why they seek dating advice. I believe that seeking dating advice and flirting advice is only productive if you choose to get your help from sources that have a solid understanding of the subject. From how I see it, the most efficient way to get educated on the do’s and don’ts of dating is to get a basic direction first. You have to understand that dating, flirting and so on, all have the same end goal, procreation. The best way to start improving your dating and relationship skills is to first analyze yourself.
Many men are generally not too keen to approach women as they fear the possibility of rejection. If you look at it from a more scientific point of view, the main reason why a woman may reject a man is that she doesn’t see that man as a suitable life partner, with whom she could have children. You can ask a large number of women why they reject men and the vast majority of them will give you a different answer, but it all comes down to a set of biological rules that lead to the survival and evolution of the species and the ability that men must have to convince their potential partners that they are the perfect “means” to reach this goal. There are all these love gurus out there that may teach you how to sweet talk a potential partner into starting a relationship, but this is not enough as real dating advice needs to teach you not only how to start a relationship but also how to maintain it.
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There are numerous factors that quality flirting advice must address and these include body language, effective verbal communication, self confidence and so on. People searching for flirting advice or relationship and dating advice usually lack in their abilities to appeal to their prospective lover’s intellect. Understand that dating is basically mate selection for humans and every flirting advice you get must address the ways in which you should make yourself more appealing to the opposite sex. Flirting advice that only teaches you how to smooth talk a potential partner will only get you through the gates, but here is where the hard part begins.
As people are becoming more and more active on online social networks, online dating is starting to become a true contender to regular dating. This will progressively lead to a point in the near future where people will lose their ability to read a person's nonverbal signals or to start a simple conversation with a potential partner. This can be a problem for those lacking good interpersonal skills, as regular dating has a completely different set of rules than its online counterpart. Flirting in person, for example, allows both parties to read the other person’s body language thus enabling them to change their strategies in real time, a thing that you cannot do with online dating. This means that people require flirting advice and dating advice to understand those rules and succeed at dating in the real world.
To overcome this problem you can take advantage of various tools designed to provide you with dating advice that is completely tailored to your needs. Software applications such as relationshipsEngine perform an analysis of your dating life and relationships, evaluate your dates, graphically displaying their trend and outcome, and provide all the information you need to improve your dating skills, flirting skills, and much more.
