By: Bill Preston
Submitted: 2010-04-12 14:24:52 | Word Count: 527
If you’ve watched my video – and if you haven’t you should because it’s awesome, it’s free and it’s coming down soon – you know that making a woman want to spend more time with you and get to know you better takes time and creativity.
Most guys just rush in and try to have an instant connection with women and frankly, women don’t like that. Every guy does it and it really is quite a turn off. What is creative about that? I’ll tell you – nothing.
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Bring a little creativity into your life and spice it up a bit. You will be glad you did.
There is another way to capture a woman’s interest and attention. There is another way to leave her thinking about you constantly and wanting to get to know you better. It is all about planting a seed of interest in her mind. It is about letting her know you want to be more than friends in a mature way, not an amateurish, childish manner.
Women do not want to be rushed or treated in an aggressive manner. You know what I mean – grabbing them as they walk by or while they are sitting next to you on the couch watching a movie or while they are trying to get some work done.
The way to attract women is to appeal to their sensual side. This does not just mean their body, it also means their mind. It means making yourself interesting enough that they wan to spend more time with you. That they never want the date to end.
It actually begins many hours before you actually get together. It is about words, it is about nonverbal actions and gestures and lastly, it is about subtlety.
Plant a seed of mystique in her mind. Remain a bit of a mystery. They want to know more. They want to have more.
Think of a woman like a cat not a dog. You might grab your dog and roughhouse and the dog loves it. Unless you want an extremely ticked of cat, you don’t grab it by the scruff and manhandle it. You call it over to you with soft soothing words.
I know there are exceptions to the rule, but women generally want you to help them get to know you. They want you to convince them to spend more time with you in a slow, gentle manner.
I can’t speak for all men, but would it really work for you if you are sitting there minding your own business and some woman comes up and grabs you or acts aggressive. Would you like that? Truly? Probably not. You also need a little time to get used to the idea, so it makes sense that a woman would, as well, right?
If you want to make a woman happy, try thinking about what makes her happy. Simplistic? Not really. I think some guys get caught up too much in what they want and not what the woman wants. Because let’s face it guys, if your woman isn’t happy, you’re not happy.
Author Resource:-
Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 5 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com
