By: William Jackson
Submitted: 2009-11-25 05:21:59 | Word Count: 645
There are various things that people do to make their first date a memorable one. But it is the last 5-10 minutes that make it more memorable. This is the time when you should decide how far ahead you can go to give it a great ending. Kissing is a cherry on top of the cake and this decision has to be taken with a lot of judiciousness, especially when you are on a first date. When you walk your date to the door the question may prick your mind whether or not to kiss. Your body might be instigating you to go ahead and kiss, while your mind might be thinking whether or not this will worsen your impression.
The guys might be thinking whether the date would want a kiss from you? Did she have a good time on the date at all? You might also think of your date to be shy enough to avoid kissing. Even though some might vouch on the kissing part, there are some serious conditions to consider before you try to get that intimate.
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So how do you determine?
Do you want to kiss her? – Do not kiss for the sake of kissing. Do not make your kissing an act; rather it must show your emotions for your date. Kissing in not an obvious good bye signal to end the day, rather it is a display of your emotions, so make the move wisely. If your date is not interested to kiss, never try to get intimate this might bring out the desperateness in you. However, if you sense the interest on her part it’s a great move. In fact, a first kiss can be the best ending to your first date when you had fun and companionship. You can leave your date with goose bumps and she will be unable to wait until the next date.
Did both of you click? – Suppose the evening has been great but how come you know whether she would react to your kiss or not? To get the answer you must try and find out the kind of chemistry you shared with her. You should consider whether the date was spontaneous or were there some lengthy silences. You should also look whether your date was eager to go to places with you or whether you were asked to guide her home early. These questions will solve your first kissing dilemma.
What is your date’s body telling you to do? – Body language also indicates significantly about the intentions of a person. When you were sitting or moving around did your date touch you a lot or was he/she distant from you? Even when you are about to drop her is she standing at her door waiting for a kiss, is she gazing into your eyes or searching for her keys? These are non-verbal cues that tell a lot about the other person’s intentions and you have got to react likewise. There are a lot problems faced by guys in general while trying to understand the body language of a girl. But it is not that difficult at all. If a girl is leaning into your personal space that means that she wants to get close. If she is subconsciously brushing her neck, face, hair, or shoulders that means that she wants you to touch them.
At the end of the day it is you who can decide whether or not it is okay to kiss on the first date. So use your gut instincts and you will never go wrong.
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