Things You Should Know If He Wants to Remain Single
By: Aaron Adams
Submitted: 2008-08-01 20:41:27 | Word Count: 523
If I caught your attention, then you must be one of those women who experienced a wonderful relationship with a great man who suddenly broke off because he realized he wants to remain single. The pattern may be different in terms of the beginning and the middle of the relationship, but it still ends in up in separation, with him giving you a lame excuse.
This is a sad reality that a lot of women face. They could not understand how they can do so well in different fields in their life, but fail again and again when it comes to having a good man who is willing to invest in a long term relationship with them.
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The harsh reality is that even if you are most sophisticated and intelligent woman there is, those qualities can’t help if you are committing mistakes that simply turn him off. The things that you are doing play a greater role in arousing his desire to commit to you than who you really are.
It may help you to know that the mistakes you do are done unintentionally. These may be ideas, lessons and traits that you gleaned from past bad relationships. Smile if you recognize the following mistakes.
Thinking that men do not know what they want. He first exhibited traits of a man who fell madly, deeply in love you, then later tells you that he is not yet ready to commit. Now tell me if that didn’t give you the impression that this man doesn’t know what he wants. Reality is that men change their minds as easily as women do. Thinking that men don’t know what they want would make you look at the relationship carefully, too carefully, that he would think something is not right with you.
Thinking that he is not trustworthy. Coming from a bad relationship can make you think that men are not capable of being trusted. Thinking this would make you suspect every man that you meet in the dating field. Being too cautious and suspicious can work negatively. If your man senses that you don’t trust them and that you re uncomfortable with them, it s a big turn off.
Thinking that they don’t make sense. As I’ve mentioned, you may think that you are successful in other fields so figuring out your man is easy. The truth is, you cannot put your man in a box and label them as part of your “to do lists”. Men are complex creatures, so you should deal with them differently as you deal with issues regarding your career. If you treat him as an item in your list, then you will easily tire of him like you easily get tired of your everyday job.
These are thoughts that can be dangerous for your relationship. Remember that your thoughts become your actions. And actions speak louder than words. Do not go on doing the things you are doing now so that you will be a captive no more of these common mistakes and begin to have a meaningful relationship with him, starting today.
