By: Bill Preston
Submitted: 2009-10-26 12:16:46 | Word Count: 555
The movie He s Just Not That Into You should be viewed by anyone who has struggled in the dating world.
It gives you a clear cut view into the excuses we all make for ourselves and each other that get in the way of getting some booty and/or finding our true love.
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The gist of the movie is that from their earliest crushes, girls are programmed to believe that if a guy is a jerk to you it means he likes you.
The movie starts out with a little girl in the sandbox googly eyed at a little boy who comes over, pushes her down and tells her she smells like poop.
When the little girl cries and tells her mother, the mother smiles big and says, oh honey, that means he likes you!
And that s where the problem begins.
The hero in the movie is Alex, a dating savvy bartender who knows how to read every single either gender ever sends out and stays professionally detached from any hint of a real relationship, instead being a player. But he gives fantastic advice to Gigi, a bumbler in the realm of love and dating.
So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn t give a shit, he genuinely doesn t give a shit. No exceptions, Alex tells Gigi.
Throughout the movie, there are signs of how to tell a guy (or girl for that matter) is just not into you, which frankly, my dears, should be obvious without you reading this article.
* He doesn t call.
If a guy doesn t call you, he doesn t want to call you.
You can make excuses all day long about how maybe he didn t call because he was in a car crash and is hospitalized or a sudden family death took him out of town or that he lost your number, but let s face it, if he didn t call you, he doesn t want to call you.
As Alex tells Gigi, if a guy wants to get ahold of you, he will find a way.
For instance, Alex says, he once called 52 Sherry Smiths (or whatever name he used) before he found the one he was looking for.
* He gives you his card and/or number.
Even if he takes your number, as well, this is a big red flag.
He s not interested, is the verdict from our dating savvy bartender.
If a guy wants to see you, believe me, he will see you.
Here are some other thoughts shared in this movie about whether someone is into you or not. In this case signs of a woman NOT being into you.
If she s not sleeping with you after a month or two months she doesn t like you.
If she calls you cuddly or dependable she doesn t like you.
If she pops a zit in front of you she doesn t like you.
If she takes a dump in front of you she doesn t like you.
It s not rocket science, but these are all good rules of thumb.
As Alex says in the movie, If a girl likes me great, if not, there s a whole lot more out there like her, probably with smaller pores and implants.
Author Resource:-
Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for men for the last 5 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He love sharing his experience and exertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Read more at: http://www.puaforums.com
